For the first time that I can remember, undoubtedly due to Mom’s recent death, I find myself looking forward to the year ahead and not really knowing how it should look. In some ways, so much is on my plate that wasn’t before. In other ways, there is a lot I don’t have to worry about or do.
The goals that I feel most drawn to right now are goals like “take it easy on yourself” and “give it time.” A Facebook friend posted this thought:
Instead of resolutions, ask yourself:
What do I need to Stop?
What do I need to Start?
What do I need to Continue?
So, as I sit down to contemplate the year ahead, I am going to reorganize my list into those categories.
- Taking painting commissions
- Stop entering plein air unless you really find you enjoy it
- Take fewer workshops (limit to Skip Lawrence)
- Mom’s Estate (the goal here is to be done with it by the end of the year)
- Trying to fix other people
- Taking things personally
- Establish MY style when I paint
- Get my website current and keep it that way
- Submit my paintings to these new events:
- Taking care of my body
- Find a source for yoga and/or meditation and go to it
- Get 8 hours sleep (this means going to bed early)
- Making time for friends
- 52 books for the Goodreads 2019 Reading Challenge
- Allowing myself to admit that I don’t like certain things
- Blog at least once a week about art
- Attend critique group
- Continue to enter these shows:
- Go to Weight Watchers regularly
- Caring about the environment
- Not taking plastic bags at the store; use reusable bags (2013)
- Using coffee cups at coffee place (2014)
- Picking up after the dog every time (2015)
- Not consuming palm oil (2016)
- Less car, more bike (2017)
- Energy audit my house (2018)
- DIY household products (2019)
- Training Key in nose work
- Remember that alone time is an important part of my mental health